EXPRESS DATING. It’s great news for couples as this year’s Valentine’s Day falls on a Saturday. However, that’s not the case for bachelors! Here is a step-by-step guide to get a Valentine date
DAY 1: TRY ONLINE
Because you only have several days left before Valentine’s day, online dating is the safest way to go. And for those of you who say that this is “too desperate,” it has become part and parcel of nearly every society on Earth! Just create a great profile, learn some e-mail etiquette, and be yourself. You’ll find someone to love in no time.
DAY 2: GET FIT
Now is the time to not only get a makeover, but also time to hit the gym or the track, and start getting fit. Yes, you only have a little time, but often when you start doing it, you unconsciously push yourself to get healthier in the next couple of days. Other than releasing stress while doing it, you gain confidence in yourself, too. There are a lot of ways to get fit: resistance training, crossfit, TRX and so many more.
DAY 3–4: READ THE SIGNS
If the woman is giving you every signal that she’s not into you, don’t waste your time and move on. It’s easy to read that! If she doesn’t whip her number out right away when you ask, if it is hard to set a date with her, or if she’s less than enthusiastic when you call her, then it’s not worth it anymore. Don’t miss out on the women who could be interested in you!
DAY 5: AVOID ANY POTENTIAL TURN-OFFS
Now that you’re certain that the attraction is mutual, you have to keep the interest going on by not doing a single mistake. By making one during this period of time, you ruin your attractiveness right away and make her second-guess whether you are the right guy for her or not. Over-complimenting her, speaking in a meek way, and trying too hard are among the things in the not-to-do-list.
DAY 6–7: MEET HER AND CONFESS THE NEXT DAY
So it’s D-day. You’ve set a date and she said yes. It’s time to polish your pickup strategy. People have different pickup styles, from flattery to upfront. Whatever line you seek to use, internalize the meaning, dominate the delivery and, most importantly, understand the true intention behind it. Master that and you’re good to go!
As wise men say, “only fools rush in.” It’s only been a week, so you should confess your feelings without intimidating her. Instead of telling her abruptly that you like her, you can start with what she made you feel. Be sure to let her know that she doesn’t have to accept right away. So, now you got your date and you’re welcome!
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