post

A definitive guide to men&#039;s premium fashion and lifestyle, as well as Hollywood celebrities.

DA MAN Magazine - Make Your Own Style!

<h2>When your dating life seems like a flat line on the EKG, it is time to polish your pickup strategy to the level of mastery. Ace Jay shows you how.</h2>
<a href="https://backend.daman.co.id/?attachment_id=21362" rel="attachment wp-att-21362"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-21362" title="102-103_Collumn Dating" src="https://backend.daman.co.id/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/102-103_Collumn-Dating.jpg" alt="" width="522" height="715" srcset="https://backend.daman.co.id/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/102-103_Collumn-Dating.jpg 522w, https://backend.daman.co.id/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/102-103_Collumn-Dating-219x300.jpg 219w, https://backend.daman.co.id/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/102-103_Collumn-Dating-493x676.jpg 493w" sizes="(max-width: 522px) 100vw, 522px" /></a>
Natural charm only works for those who have it, but having the mindset to actually dazzle others intentionally is a far more valuable skill – a skill worthy of noble pursuit. You could, for example, make eye contact and smile at the fine-looking girl across the bar all you want, but when it comes down to landing a date, you probably will need to do some fancy footwork to make the approach. Never stress though; getting someone&#8217;s undivided attention is easier than it appears. All you need to do is choose a pickup style that suits your personality – a master pickup artist strategy. Once you have a well-grounded game plan, you can beat the odds.
Personalized Pickup
Most people take interest at the first sign of original thought. Perhaps because very few people have the energy or desire to come up with a fresh angle. Irrespective, the second someone approaches with a line we&#8217;ve never heard before, they hold the spotlight.
If you&#8217;re someone who has a problem with spontaneous thinking or coming up with a distinctive approach, never consider this a drawback. Identifying each potential date as an independent person provides you with serious collateral in terms of creativity. As for all of those without this particular talent, you will have to take your observation skills up a few notches in order to learn something unique about the person you&#8217;re scouting. If you adapt your approach to match that particular moment, you portray yourself in the best light.
Aggressive Pickup
There are those among us who believe in taking all matters into their own hands, laying bare the potentially hidden gems of destiny. If you want to get to the point as soon as possible, this routine will get you there fast. Informing someone that you won&#8217;t take “no” for an answer may be cliché, but this strategy could prove fruitful. Sometimes too much choice is bad. By being aggressive, you are actually limiting the person&#8217;s decision making ability about their romantic lives. Simplify things and let them behave according to your imposed will.
Be advised that this approach will probably fail on similarly aggressive individuals. When used on other such aggressive, independent people, you will likely end up locking horns. Remember that persistence and harassment are in the eye of the beholder. The aggressive approach should only be used when you know where the limits lie.
Seductive Pickup
Few experiences in life can compare to meeting a person who has mastered the art of seduction. But mastering this art is no easy feat. If your seduction strategy borders on explicit, you&#8217;d be safer using an alternative strategy. But, if you have yet to receive a slap or drink on your face, the seductive approach may be just the right choice.
Think of a very provocative image to get you in the mood. Upon commencing your approach toward that special someone, use a very slow gait and hold intense eye contact. Look at them as if they were exhibiting full-frontal nudity. It&#8217;s actually a sure-fire way to get someone aroused. When speaking, less is more. Convey only a dignified compliment, such as &#8220;I find you very exciting&#8221; – try this method for yourself, it may prove to be the one that works.
Flattery Pickup
Flattery is an orthodox, and increasingly antiquated, way of winning over someone with a sense of refined elegance. Shameless truth – most girls at your local bar are thus ruled out. If you are able to deliver a genuine compliment, you may just find yourself making use of this traditional pickup strategy. The chief characteristic of a good compliment comes from being able to identify what that special someone values most, then to elaborately expand on it. Woman wearing fashionably detailed clothing, for example, would in all probability appreciate a compliment about it.
The most important aspect of this pickup strategy is maintaining discretion. Do not overwhelm a person. Too many compliments will always lead to discomfort. Everyone likes to be noticed, but nobody likes to fall victim to a creep. In today&#8217;s world you need to differentiate yourself from the herd.
Truthful Pickup
I know that it may sound corny, but there are times when honesty is truly the best and only effective course of action. Despite the paradox of labeling honesty a &#8220;pickup&#8221; tactic, many romantic arrangements and connections have been made through its use. By going up to that girl in the corner of your eye, letting her know how you feel about her and asking to spend time together, you liberate yourself. Like any other pickup tactic, at times it works and other times it doesn&#8217;t. At least it&#8217;s always genuine.
Distress Pickup
This approach involves making a display out of pretending you&#8217;re lost or searching for a misplaced item (maybe a phone or car keys). With this approach, you never have to put yourself out on the line. When it comes to strategies for pickup, this one is definitely the safest.
Every single person around could probably write a book about pickup lines they&#8217;ve heard or come across in their dating lives. Some people say that only the genuine lines work and others say only the humorous or creative lines work. Whatever you believe, there is no such thing as a bad line, only a bad delivery.
Whatever the line you seek to use, internalize the meaning, dominate the delivery and most importantly, understand the true intention behind it.
Photographer: William Alden Manning 
Stylist: Ana Giraldo-Wingler 
Models: Jeremy Santucci &amp; Holly Miller 
Tie: DIBI

Dating: Master the pickup artist strategy

aggressive,

dating,

flattery,

Get the girl,

Pickup strategy